Almost everyone will agree that a wedding is all about the bride. The truth is the bride has always been and will always be the center of attention in a wedding. From the time that she was a little girl envisioning her perfect wedding to the time of actually fulfilling her dream is very significant. However, let us not take the men for granted. The aspiration of a lad to find and marry his dream girl will finally become a reality. And after complying with the bride regarding every detail of the wedding plans, the groom also deserves a party.
The bachelor party is probably the only time when the groom receives the spotlight. In this occasion, it is really his turn to shine. This is an event where the groom celebrates his last day of being a bachelor. For that reason he deserves to have a great time. Although the best man may require assistance from the ushers, he is usually the one in charge of planning the bachelor's party. It is essential for him to take into consideration what the groom truly desires for his last day of being single.
Nowadays a typical bachelor party usually involves girls with revealing outfits and a lot of lap dancing. More often than not, several men find this kind of theme really appealing. They have this feeling that they need to experience their last hurrah prior to tying the knot and living happily ever after. If this is what the groom truly desires then the best man ought to do everything possible to make this happen. Nevertheless, there are a lot of other ways to celebrate this meaningful event. Whatever your preference is, you always have to bear in mind what the groom truly desires.
If the groom happens to be the conservative type and wants to be faithful only to his wife-to-be, you can organize something else to his liking. A sports event or any outdoor activity is a great idea. This involves a lot of physicality and is one way to lessen his feelings of anxiety. Going to the arcade to play his favourite video games is another suggestion. You could enjoy a great deal as this could bring out the child in him. If the groom does not prefer to eliminate the booze then you can have a bachelor party in a bar. If this is the case, you may need to rent a car with a driver. It is always better to be safe than sorry.
Planning a bachelor party is really not easy. There are two things that could be the most difficult part in planning a bachelor's party. First would be the expenses. The fact is you need money when you have a party. The question is who will cover all the expenses? You are fortunate if the father of either the groom or the bride has agreed to pay for all the cost. If that is the case then that's one less problem for you. Otherwise, you can estimate the overall cost of the party including the tips and split it among all the invited guests. This would of course exclude the groom. Since this is his event, he doesn't have to spend a single dime for it.
Next would be the guest list. Who should you invite to the party? Without a doubt, both the groom's and bride's fathers should be invited. Besides all the ushers, you could likewise invite some of the male family members and relatives. If you feel that you may have missed a few names to include in the list, don't hesitate to ask help from the bride. She will be very accommodating in giving you their contact details. You might as well consider her point of view regarding the bachelor party. In conclusion, a bachelor party is an event where all men should be merry, especially the groom. As the best man, it is your responsibility to make it a huge success.
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